"And he sat down opposite the treasury and watched the people putting money into the offering box. Many rich people put in large sums. 42 And a poor widow came and put in two small copper coins, which make a penny. 43 And he called his disciples to him and said to them, “Truly, I say to you, this poor widow has put in more than all those who are contributing to the offering box. 44 For they all contributed out of their abundance, but she out of her poverty has put in everything she had, all she had to live on.”
So when I've read Jesus' words spoken about her, I would hear his amazement - his holding her up as an example to us all.
About this time last year, I heard an interesting sermon from a Dallas pastor I respect a lot (Matt Chandler). He opened my eyes to see this passage in a different light.
Look where this story sits.
The passage just before it has Jesus teaching - saying beware of the scribes. The scribes, as he described, "like to walk around in long robes, and like greetings in the marketplaces and have the best seats in the synagogues and the places of honor at feasts, who devour widows' houses and for a pretense make long prayers. They will receive the greater condemnation.”
And the passage just after the widow's offering has Jesus coming out of the temple, with one of his disciples admiring how wonderful the temple was, with its stones and buildings. Jesus said to him, "Do you see these great buildings? There will not be left here one stone upon another that will not be thrown down.”
There are countless verses about giving generously in the bible, but I wonder (thanks to Matt) if the widow's offering is really one of them?
Jesus is talking about the scribes that like to devour widow's houses. Then Jesus looks at the widow that is giving all she has to a temple that Jesus says is about to be demolished. Hear Jesus words spoken, but instead of admiration for her, try to imagine him shaking his head, as though to be shaming the scribes strutting around in their long robes while this poor lady is giving all.
“Truly, I say to you, this poor widow has put in more than all those who are contributing to the offering box. 44 For they all contributed out of their abundance, but she out of her poverty has put in everything she had, all she had to live on."
If it helps, try to imagaine Jesus' words to a poor person that picked up the phone and gave every dime she had to a cheesy televangelist. She, out of her poverty has put in everything she had, all she had to live on." Those words suddenly sound sympathetic.
Application:
In interepreting the passage this way, it's certainly not an excuse to avoid giving generously. The bible is far too full of encouragement to give. I think it can be a word of caution to church leaders - to be careful with how they spend their resources - and a reminder that Jesus is sympathetic to the faithful poor while the rich church leaders strut around in their long robes.